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It is important to know that you
are a success in life if you are able to realise what you deem
as an important and worthwhile accomplishment. Success is a very
personal journey. It means different things to different people.
Your success cannot be a comparison of you to others, your
environment or your past.
The accomplishment of anything
great begins with clear goals. Well defined goals are part
fantasy and part pragmatism. If you can dream, conceive and
believe, then you can achieve your goals. It is important to
realise that achieving any goal will take persistence,
commitment and a willingness to forego temporary pleasures for
the pursuit of your goal.
Goals will give you a well
defined purpose, a sense of accomplishment and a mastery over
your environment.
Step 1: Create A Vision /
Dream
Before you set a goal you must have a clear mental picture of
what you wish to achieve. Creating a vision is seeing beyond
what is to what could be.
You must get in touch with
your true desire. Be Honest! What is important? What matters?
What do you care about? What do you really want? It must be
truly meaningful to you.
Many people have a difficult
time creating a vision because that vision may be far removed
from reality. Yet it is that gap between the vision and current
reality that creates a tension that propels you towards your
dream.
You must keep your dream fixed
in your mind at all times, with NO COMPROMISING!!
Step 2: Decide on Actions
Now that your vision is clear, you can begin to determine the
actions that must be taken to achieve the vision. These actions
become the specific goals that are to be accomplished. A goal is
a target, an end or an objective which when achieved brings you
closer to your vision.
Ask yourself, What do I need
to accomplish to reach my dream?, then list the various ideas
that come to mind.
Step 3: Identify Roadblocks
Having identified the actions required it is also important to
identify potential road blocks. There are two good reasons for
this, first if you are able to think about what problems can
stop you, you can generate plans to get around the problems it
if they should arise. And second when they do come up they dont
hinder you. Most people have their goals undermined when
problems surface.
Some examples of roadblocks
you may anticipate are (1) not enough time, (2) fear of going to
university, (3) financial constraints. For each of the
roadblocks, develop a strategy to get around the problem. For
example getting a loan or part-time job to pay for tuition. Also
talk to friends or others who faced similar difficulties, to
assist you in finding solutions to problems.
Step 4: List Benefits
You also need to generate a list of benefits you will receive
when you reach your goals. The question that needs to be
answered is, Do the benefits make the goal worthwhile? It the
answer is yes, you know that it is worth tackling the problems
to achieve the benefits. Focussing on the benefits will get you
through the tough times!
Step 5: Write the Goal Be
SMART
There is something magical about writing down goals. Without
writing down the goal it is merely an idea or a wish. Writing it
down helps to bring it to life. In addition, you will need to
read your goals on a weekly/daily basis to keep the focus on
what you want to achieve.
Use the SMART model.
Specific Good goals
are specific. They detail exactly what is to be accomplished.
Measurable Measuring
your results helps to keep you moving towards your goal and
tells you how successful you are. It is a great motivator.
Attainable Goals
should challenge your abilities but be within your reach,
otherwise you will become de-motivated.
Relevant Make sure
your goals are relevant to your vision.
Time Bound A deadline
sets a time frame to get things done and move unto the next
step. Without it tomorrow never comes.
Design An Action Plan
The last stage in the Goal Setting process is a step-by-step
breakdown of the small daily/weekly/monthly actions required to
achieve each goal with deadlines. Each time you complete an
action check it off and celebrate!!
EXAMPLE - Goal: To register
for university by March 2001
Specific Actions Time Frame /
Deadline
1. Take self-assessment Nov 18
2. Talk to counselor Nov 29
3. Research career options Dec 1 - 15
4. Research financing Dec 16 31
5. Select universities and obtain registration packs Jan 1 - 31
6. Apply to university Feb 27
Remember, the secret to
achieving goals is your willingness to do whatever it takes to
get there. Implementation is the key! It is also important to
continuously set new goals and new dreams so that there is
constant activity towards achieving something new. Success is a
process not a destination! |